The past 18 months

The last 18 months have been a whirlwind. I knew 2 things for sure after Alyssa’s passing; I was NOT going to let her be forgotten, and that I was going to make her proud. In this last year and a half, we have been able to do some pretty amazing things. And in my heart of hearts, I know this is only the beginning. Some of my happiest times since then have come from giving.

The first thing I wanted to do was send someone to college since we wouldn’t be sending Alyssa anymore. With the help of my hometown of Erie, the community, family and friends we were able to fully fund a scholarship in Alyssa’s memory at the The Erie Community Foundation. We now have a part in awarding deserving nursing students a little extra for school. Last year we couldn’t narrow it down, and picked 3! And the best part? Long after we are gone, the scholarship will still be there. Still a tribute to Alyssa’s memory and legacy.

The next thing I wanted to do was to establish a fund so that we could give monies to other organizations that aligned with our advocacy, and mission. We have also (with your help) accomplished that.

My next mission is to fundraise so that I can purchase and distribute as many epilepsy monitors as I possibly can. Had we have had one of these devices for Alyssa, she may still be here today. They are LIFE SAVING and LIFE CHANGING!!!

Imagine being a teenager and wanting the freedoms that all teens want, but because of your epilepsy you have a worry wart mother (like myself) and have all sorts of restrictions! Now instead, you can strap on a watch (like SmartMonitor) and your mom can relax (does that really ever happen)

Imagine your young child starting school, playing outside, riding their bike, taking a shower, driving…. all with seizure activity. It’s enough to drive you insane as a parent.

Imagine knowing your loved one has sleep seizures, and the only thing you can do at night is either stay awake, sleep with them, and then suffer yourself because you can’t get a good nights sleep. Did you know they have a monitor for that too? (SAMi)

Technology is amazing. If any such devices were available when Alyssa was alive I either didn’t know about them, or they weren’t specific to her type of seizure (tonic-colonic). But technology is moving faster then we could have ever dreamed.

I don’t plan on stopping my mission(s) anytime soon, and I am sure that I will come up with even more ways to advocate, help, and spread awareness. In fact, I feel like I am just warming up!

We owe all the SUCCESS of this ‪#‎ajo‬ movement to Alyssa. It has always been, and will always be HER. She is the drive. She’s really something special.

Some people don’t understand our “success” in such a short amount of time. I use that term loosely because that success came with a VERY high price. My daughter’s life. And if you were lucky enough to know Alyssa personally, then you know what a loss her life was. If you didn’t know her personally, I try my best everyday to make strangers feel like they did. To bring you into our lives. Our victories, our defeats, our grief, and our celebrations. Sometimes all those feelings will come wrapped up in a big package.

There are so many people, business, organizations, strangers, friends, and foes that have helped us with our journey. I can’t even begin to explain my gratitude. Someday I will write out a big long thank you speech (and the music will start to play midway through, just like on the award shows).

But please know, that with every good deed, with every pay it forward, with every receipt with an #ajo attached YOU are helping! You keep this alive. Alyssa’s spirit alive. And just for that fact alone, even if we never raised another penny (I still plan on raising lots of pennies) that is enough.

On that note, I will say thank you. Alyssa Josephine O’Neill thanks you!

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SAMi The Sleep Activity Monitor

The AJO FOREVER FOUNDATION will begin taking applications shortly for reduced cost, or free SAMi monitors based on financial need and urgency. If you think this is something you, a family member, child, or friend could benefit from, please e-mail us at ajoforever@gmail.com and we will send you an application for qualification.

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If your child needs to be closely monitored for abnormal activity at night you probably suffer from a lack of sleep. I know we did.

SAMi was created to address a very personal need for a reliable system that:

  • Alerts you to your child’s abnormal movements with a loud alarm.
  • Does not sound alarms for a child’s normal tossing and turning during sleep.
  • Provides you with a quick way to see and hear what is happening.  This allows you to go back to sleep if everything is OK.
  • Makes recordings that you can share with your doctors.

You can learn more here SAMi Alert Monitors

80’s 4 AJO Dance

The 80’s Experience for the #AJO Foundation brought to you by Millennium Sound is sure to be our biggest and best fundraiser to date!

With planning beginning in the summer of 2014, the Millennium Sound team approached the O’Neill’s with the idea of hosting an 80’s Dance to help start fundraising for the AJO Foundation. Once everything was in place, The 80’s Experience was developed and now is set for March 28, 2015 at Rainbow Gardens from 7:30pm – 12:30pm. Proceeds will benefit The #AJO Forever in your Hearts Fund.

To get your tickets, please visit www.80s4ajo.com

More than gifts

This is the time of year when we all gather with our family and friends to celebrate the season and the coming of a brand new year. This year it’s not the same, and it won’t ever be again- but that doesn’t mean we can’t be thankful for what we do have.

Here’s what Sarah got for Christmas!

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Also, today it was announced that #AJO was voted Erie’s top local story of 2013 thanks to a poll held on GoErie.com which many of you voted for :) THANK YOU! This is such an honor and makes us so proud. Click the screen shot below to read the story and watch the video.

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Be sure to check the latest PHOTOS page for the newest submissions to us. We just love how these keep coming in- they really bring a smile to our faces! Thank you to all…. we hope your holidays have been wonderful.

<3 #AJO